I wrote my “who knows what I’ll be writing about a year from now” post yesterday and I can already say I didn’t see some things that happened last night coming.
Event #1: The reception
My roommate and I were both invited to the wedding reception for two people we’ve both known forever: we learned to ballroom dance with the bride in our high school Swing Dance Club (One of those “I remember her when she was ‘this tall'” kind of things) and we taught the groom to ballroom dance in our dance club in college (I do not remember him when he was ‘this tall’. He is tall, period.) They are both the nicest people ever and their families are super-nice, etc. Lots of nice and you can’t even hate them for it because it’s genuinely who they are. Anyway, they got married in a small ceremony at Disney in July because the groom is in the Navy and they didn’t have the time to plan a big ceremony. We watched a video of the ceremony, which made me cry because it was so sweet.
Last night was the reception. My roommate is suffering from some extended form of the plague/TB and couldn’t go, so I went solo. Like I said, everyone involved is super-nice, so thankfully it wasn’t awkward. Or at least I managed to control my own social awkwardness. I was seated with a few other dance people I knew and we had a good time.
And I caught the bouquet! Maybe my spinster days are over? Perhaps. This brings me to
Event #2: The blind date
One of my work friends texted me a few days ago when I was in Houston with this: So X is asking me about my single friends
What do you say to that? It was not a question and it really wasn’t a statement either (note the lack of ‘.’ at the end). I stared at my phone for a little while debating how to answer because I wasn’t really sure where it was going. I finally asked her what she told him and she had showed him a picture of me. (Good grief, which one?)
Okay, okay, so she wanted me to hang out on Saturday and I reluctantly agreed. I’ve never been on a blind date and I guess there is a first time for everything. After the reception ended, I joined them at a local bar (aka THE only local bar, which happens to be a hub for everyone I ever went to school with). It was freezing and rainy, so the inside was packed. We got a couple of drinks and braved the cold outside because it was quieter. We all talked for a little while until the inside bar cleared out enough that we could find spots on the couches by the fire (wound up sitting across from a girl who was in my first grade class, just to set the “yes, everyone I ever went to school with ever” scene here.)
Man, blind dates are awkward. You kind of feel like you’re under cross-examination — trying to talk to the person you’re “on a date with” while the third party alternates between staring you down to determine if it looks like you’re hitting it off so they can pat themselves on the back and trying NOT to stare you down to make you feel super awkward. Luckily, the blind date-ee and I got along pretty well and had some things in common (couldn’t read all of Lord of the Rings because it was too detailed, enjoyed slightly off-base humor, and — he dances! Although we talked a lot about dubstep which I don’t really know that much about besides that it sounds like you’re feeding your computer into a shredder. But I digress.)
So it wasn’t bad. We discussed going dancing and exchanged numbers at the end of the night. (Poor guy, I missed the first subtle hint at going out dancing and he had to point-blank ask me again. Oops.) This morning, my friend was doing recon to sniff out what I thought about him and asked me if she had mentioned he lives in Colorado.
D’oh!
Her reasoning is that she figured “If y’all fall in love, you can work it out.” Haha, great, thanks for that tiny oversight. We’ll see what happens.
Anyway. It was a pretty fun night overall. My roomie and I have the exact same circle of friends so it’s rare to go out and do something by myself without a permanent wingwoman by my side. I was proud of myself for going out on a limb and being confident enough to fly solo.